Italian Pot Roast

Italian Pot Roast

Well that was a lovely 2 week break for fall before we dove straight into winter like weather. Pot roast is a meal that just feels right on wintery days. That being said, American pot roast is often extremely heavy with the gravy and potatoes and is just too more than I need (not that Teddy or Zach care, they will eat pot roast how ever I make it!).

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Imperfectly Happy

I unpacked my car this afternoon from my morning trip to @homegoods. Teddy was zooming around, 🚴🏻 without his helmet, and whining how hungry he was for a smoothie. I was sticking to my guns that I was almost dinner time and getting called *the WORST mama EVER* while simultaneously yelling 📢 at him to *come back here RIGHTNOW and be safe*.

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I Heart Teddy

I Heart Teddy

Four years ago, July 27 to be exact, Teddy had life saving open heart surgery at Children's National Medical Center.  (You can read the story about his condition and surgery here ). 

Three years ago this week he started walking. 

Two years ago this summer Teddy was running around at his first beach trip. 

This summer Teddy started swimming and jumping off the side of the pool and became a LEGO master.

This year Teddy will start his final year of preschool.

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The F*ing Fours

We made it through another trip around the sun.  Teddy is “this many” [shows four fingers]. Teddy had an awesome year being 3, he rocked it, really. Now I am holding on for dear life and hoping that we make it through this year in one piece.

Yep … that’s the face

Yep … that’s the face

I was told to watch out for the Terrible Twos and when Teddy hit three I heard “ahhh, he’s a Three-nager now.”  But none of that hit our house.  I walked through the world smug and smiling with my joyful and sweet little boy, thinking, “Not my kid.”  Never once did he run away from me in public or throw a tantrum in a store.

No one told me about age four. No one warned me my kid was going to become a possessed manic. I knew he would stop napping eventually, but become an exhausted sleep monster? I knew he would be smarter, but a manipulative genius? I knew he would get older and change but who is this person in my house?

We have hit the Fucking Fours. I”m here to give you fair warning that they exist.

It happened all at once.  One day he was a cute, toddling, little cherub and the next he was a lanky, leggy, fast and loud, maniac.  I was convinced I needed to consult a therapist for this sudden change in behavior.

In desperation, I asked my trusted group of friends what the heck was going on, was my kid going phsycho or was this some developmental phase I wasn’t prepared for. 

My friends told me that yes indeed 4 year olds suck (phew, my kid wasn’t turning into a Lifetime Movie headliner) and this phase is actually called the Fucking Fours. The **what?!** you say.

The Fucking Fours … because they are fucking loud, fucking annoying, fucking scream-y and fucking tantrum-y and it’s fucking exhausting.

My mind knows that this is a really hard age for kids, they are not (for the most part) trying to be jack-asses.  It’s an in-between age, between baby/toddlerhood and real childhood.  Full of BIG emotions and ideas but not quite ready to handle them yet.  Life is starting to become real and scary.  It’s the age of no more naps but damn he needs a nap.  Now he he tired and cranky by 4pm and wired again by 5pm but so ready for bed it isn’t funny. 

I want to scoop him up and cuddle him and make it all better when he is crying so hard that he says “I can’t stop the tears” but he won’t let me, he needs to figure it out on his own terms.  It does makes it that much sweeter when he is ready for a snuggle and a kiss though. 

He may not always be in the mood to hold hands, he might be running away at break neck speed, but he still always replies to my I love you with “I love you all the way around.”

The fucking fours are master manipulators.  They are aware of what you are doing and how to work around you.  Maybe it’s a stand off, maybe it’s a tantrum, maybe it’s tears.  Something will work today for them to get their way.  At least it often does in my house.  Is today going to be the day that mom just doesn’t want to deal with any tears/screaming/mess and gives in to that cookie before breakfast?  Probably.

The Fucking Fours are sometimes so fucking cute

The Fucking Fours are sometimes so fucking cute

Fucking Fours like to press boundaries with all things making bed time super enjoyable.  The once loved bath is touch and go.  Getting ready for bed is a delicate matter hinging on whether you set out the right pajamas and have prepared the correct books.  No?  Well then back to square one, after he’s calmed down.  But as he gets sleepier, he gets more cuddly and wants to read more (ONE MORE BOOK JUST ONE MORE!!!) and you lay in bed and sing songs like you did just a few months ago.

You tuck that long lanky kid into that big boy bed and the Fucking Fours slide away and he’s just your sweet little boy. 

Until 1:47am when he screams your name and demands you sleep in his bed …

 

We Heart Teddy

We Heart Teddy

Three years ago yesterday, July 27, Teddy had life saving open heart surgery at Children's National Medical Center. (You can read the story about his condition and surgery here ). 

Two years ago this week he started walking. 

One year ago this week Teddy was running around at his first beach trip. 

Friday he finished his first summer at camp with the big kids.

Nothing I just listed would have happened without Children's National.  

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Wishes for You ... A Letter to Teddy on His Third Birthday

Wishes for You ... A Letter to Teddy on His Third Birthday

Three years ago we brought you home. Now you are three years old.  You just seem so big and mature.

You conquered this last year with ease , if not grace, and I have a few wishes for you for this coming one:

I hope you never lose your adventurous spirit… keep on being the most fun kid at the park.

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The More Things Change

The More Things Change

A year has passed since I have started this blog and started documenting our lives and my musings.  A year with a child can seem like an eternity, the days creeping by so slowly, then BAM, you look back and the 365 days have flow by in the blink of an eye.  Things are ever changing with kids, their needs and wants and favorite colors. And just as you are focused on how much things have changed, you can be surprised by how much they stay the same.  Time is a strange beast and nothing shows you the power of it more than kids. 

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The Nightmare Before Christmas

The Nightmare Before Christmas

'Twas four nights before Christmas and all through the house,
Not a creature was stirring, not even Rudy and his mouse.
The decorated tree gave off a warm glow,
adorned with ornaments from long ago. [really there are no ornaments on the tree, Teddy took them all off]

Teddy in his crib drifting asleep slowly,
Snuggled and dreaming of RoboCar Poli.
I in my new Lulu joggers and Papa in a charcoal mask,
we had just settled in for a long winters nap. (i.e. we were in bed reading and falling asleep at 9pm)

[at 12:09am]
When out of the monitor arose such a clatter,
I sprang from my bed to see what was the matter!
Up! Up! - the stairs I went like a SWAT team.
All while my husband continued to dream.

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I Heart Teddy

I Heart Teddy

SAVE THE DATE

Fun for a Purpose - The Race for Every Child
October 21, 2017 @ 8am
Freedom Plaza
Join us! Team I Heart Teddy (PS - free team t-shirts!)

WE HEART TEDDY

Two years ago yesterday, Teddy had life saving open heart surgery at Children's National Medical Center. (You can read the story about his condition and surgery here ).

We owe our happiness to the team at Children's and we do whatever we can to support the hospital.  Zach and I find it especially important in this day and age, when the future of healthcare is in flux that we do what we can to support the hospitals and staff that do the amazing work of saving our little ones.  As well as do what we can to support the families going through the hardest times of having a sick child.

When we were thinking of ways to give back we were thrilled to find out about the Race for Every Child 5K.  Not only is it an awesome and fun event but it fits right into our family's active lifestyle.  Those of you that know us know that we are a running, biking, swimming, active threesome, so a 5K to support our most precious cause is perfect.

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Late, Again

To be on time is to be 5 minutes early.  That is how I rolled before Teddy.  I was early to class.  I was early to work, I was early to lunch dates with friends.  

Then I had Teddy, he was 9 days late.  Ever since then I have struggled to regularly be on time.

Now I am that friend, the one that is always late or at least seemingly so.  The one that comes zooming in breathlessly begging for forgiveness, again.

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It Takes A Village

It Takes A Village

To the dad who fist bumped me as we passed each other stroller running, each with a sleeping kiddo, thank you ...

To my running "tribe", who answers all sorts of questions, at all hours of the day and night, and is always there for a good laugh, too, thank you ...

To my best friend of 30 years, whose son was born within days of Teddy, who I cried on the phone to those first few weeks (I don't even remember what it was about, but I know I needed it), thank you ...

To the friend who lets us barge into her house, good day or bad, thank you ...

To Teddy's favorite people at Trader Joes, who play with him while I grocery shop, thank you ...

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This Little Heart of Mine

This Little Heart of Mine

Recently Jimmy Kimmel revealed his newborn son's heart condition.  To most families this is a gut wrenching story that you can empathize with but is a distant concept.

But to 1% of families, like ours (and a number of dear friends') with child born with a congenital heart defect, this story brought back flashes of our kiddos' struggles.  Having a child who is sick is difficult in it's own right; having a child sick when they are first born is terrifying.  

Teddy was born with multiple congenital heart defects (CHDs) and had open heart surgery at 2.5 months old.  He is now 100% and should have no lasting ill effects.  Zach and I are constantly reminded how very lucky we are to have Teddy as part of our lives.  He is a sweet and spunky kid who has brought us tremendous joy.  

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You are 2 and Cool ... A Letter to My Son on His Birthday

You are 2 and Cool ... A Letter to My Son on His Birthday

Dear Teddy,

Today we celebrate you turning 2.  It seems like it was just yesterday that your father and I saw you for the first time, looked into your eyes, touched your hair, held you, and watched a piece of our hearts living outside of our bodies.  

When I first held you I fell in love with you because you were mine - my child, a sudden embodiment of my heart and soul.  

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Tales of the $400 Toilet

Tales of the $400 Toilet

As anyone with a toddler can tell you, they are destructive little beings.  Give them a crayon and paper and they will find the nearest sofa.  Give them a cracker and they will find the nearest rug to grind it into.

Recently, we experienced the true destructive power of our toddler when it comes to the bathroom and learned that for the bargain basement price of $400(ish) you too, can have an ongoing relationship with your plumber and get a new toilet.  

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